Happy Friday! Yes, I know it is only Thursday, but it is my Friday in the work world. We are leaving this afternoon for Dallas for a long weekend. My nephew graduates Saturday morning so that is our main reason for going, of course. If we happen to get some shopping in and a lovely tan by the pool so be it. Princess is staying home because she has a busy cheer schedule and does not want to miss all the activities going on. I have a fabulous house/pet sitter coming, gotta love friends, so it will just be me, hubby, my son and hubby's youngest. The boys love their nephew so they are really looking forward to the trip. They are staying separate from us, so I am not sure how much we will actually see of them, but they are all good kids, so I am not worried. I love how my family has embraced my hubby and his kids. It's like they have been a part of our lives forever and not just a little over 3 1/2 years. I know it has to be awkward getting a whole new set of relatives you never even asked for, but I guess it prepares them for having in laws in the future. My family is not terribly overwhelming so I think that has helped as well and I have a super cool family, so what's not to love. My hubby's parents and older brother have done the same. They have embraced me and my kids as their own and I so appreciate it. The younger brother and I are still working through some things. It makes it a bit awkward when one of my very best friends is his ex wife and they do not get along too well, but we are trying to keep that part of our lives separate and make the most of it. The same has happened on their dad's side as well. His wife's family has embraced my kids as their own as well and I really appreciate that. It makes it so much easier when everyone can get along. I know I keep saying this, but it really is.
So, I forgot to mention what my awesome and romantic hubby did for me for our anniversary. Besides the photo album and planning our re commitment ceremony, he left me poems to find throughout the weekend. I would open a drawer and would find one. Look in my purse and find another one. It was wonderful. He told me he hasn't written any poetry since college and has found his inspiration in me and has started writing again. I know, roll eyes, gag, but I think it is very flattering and I love it. He is so good at it. One of my favorite's :
The Right Size
When you are barefoot and I hold you, your head is on my heart
When you're in heels and I hold you, I can look into your eyes
When you lay beside me and I hold you, we fit together perfectly
Our love is always the right size
I love it. We always joke about him being 4 inches taller than me, but our legs are the exact same size, so this is very fitting for us. Anyway, I just love and adore my sweet romantic husband. Speaking of my wonderful hubby, when princess and I left the house this morning she usually just waves and tells us bye, but since we will not see each other til Sunday, I drove her to the bus stop so I could hug and kiss her and spend extra time with her. Hubby had to get to work early, so he drove separate. She waved bye to Mark and said wait a minute! I need a hug, I am not going to see him for awhile. She ran back in and ran down the hall to give him a hug, kiss and they exchanged I love yous and miss yous. It makes my heart melt that they have bonded like this. Now, princess has a great dad and they have a great relationship, so I am not discrediting his role at all, but I love how hubby and princess have bonded. It is a wonderful thing.
Rapid topic change!!! Tip of the day: Eat some cereal. The good stuff, not fruit loops or sugar smacks. Not that having fruit loops or sugar smacks every once in a while is bad for you, but eat the good cereal too. Cheerios are wonderful for you. They are chocked full of iron, calcium, Vitamin A and Vitamin C. Another good cereal is Life. I love cereal. I eat it without milk, but add some milk to yours for added nutritional value. Spend some time in the cereal aisle and rediscover an oldie but goodie. Now, everything in modesty, please. Cereal tends to be high in sodium, so watch your portion sizes.
Have a fabulous weekend and make sure you are kind.
Hugs!!!
Thursday, May 29, 2014
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
Choices
Life is all about choices. Some are easy to make, like should I buy chunky or plain peanut butter, chunky, please. But some choices are difficult and come with consequences that may or may not be positive, but for your mental health need to be made. I came to a very difficult choice last night and it saddens me that it had to come to this, but for my well being it had to be done. The choice I made was to let go of a certain situation in my life. Being a step mom is a very difficult position to be in, especially if you have children as well. You basically, depending on when you became a step mom, have stepped in in the middle of the children being raised and have a set of ideas, morals and values that you instilled in your children that the other party may not agree or believe in at all. So you naturally tend to "raise" your step children that way. Well, when you get pushed so many times, you just get tired and finally realize you need to step away and let the other two parents deal with it. Which is hard as well because it effects me too. This, I know will be difficult because you are basically raising kids in two different ways. For example, I am a firm believer that kids who are of age(starting at 15) should work. My son started working his freshman year of high school as an office clerk at the office where hubby and I work. He works 3ish til 5 Monday through Friday and lots more during the summer. He was given a car at 16 knowing he was responsible for gas and maintenance on the car. This decision was made so he would learn how to budget, what it takes to have a car, and when you pay for your own gas, you won't drive all over creation wasting gas. He is now a Senior and is doing wonderfully. He has a 3.6 GPA, plays soccer, volunteers, maintains an active social life, works, and his on target for securing some awesome college scholarships. Imagine juggling all those things! Wow, he must be a super hero. Now, on the other hand, my step son was given a car on his 16th birthday in January. Hubby and I paid for his car(just like Jake's) and we pay insurance on both. And let me tell you, teenage boys are crazy expensive to pay for. So most of our money goes to State Farm(love them) and Catholic High. Hubby and I also pay tuition for both boys(princess goes to public school until high school) with a bit of help from Jake's dad for Jake. So, I do not think asking the kids to work a part time job to pay for gas and extras is too much to ask. Step son's mom does not agree with this. For the record, hubby agrees with me. Growing up he shared a car with his brothers and parents and did not even think the kids needed cars, but I explained they really need the freedom of a car to be able to learn responsibility. How do you teach kids responsibility when they sit around and play video games all day and night? So, my choice is to back off. Whatever they figure out I will just learn to deal with it. Now, how to explain this to my son why his younger step brother gets to lay around all day while we just dole out money for his every whim is kind of lost on me at the moment, but I will figure out someway to explain it. So, as the song goes, I am letting go and will learn how to deal with it. It is nice when everyone can work together, but usually it's my way or the highway and I am tired of going down that particular highway so I am getting off. Does this mean I will not support my step sons? Of course not, but I am out of all the "discussions". Just let me know what else I need to add to the budget because it always falls on us.
So another post with the tip of the day added in with the blog post. Let go of situations and make the choices that need to be made whether they be the easy ones or the hard ones. Just make sure you can live with the consequences of your choices.
Hugs!
So another post with the tip of the day added in with the blog post. Let go of situations and make the choices that need to be made whether they be the easy ones or the hard ones. Just make sure you can live with the consequences of your choices.
Hugs!
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
Memorial Day Weekend
Happy Tuesday! Yawn! What a busy and amazing weekend. I am still trying to recover. Riverfest was fun, but a bit disappointing. I loved Chicago. They were a bit slow to get going, but once they did, wonderful! It was fun going back to the 70's and 80's and there was dancing with the hubby and friends to go with it. Sunday night we ended up with backstage passes at the Bud Light stage and were up close and personal with Hank Williams Jr himself. Now, I am not a country fan, but I do appreciate a good show and I do admittedly like a few of his songs. Hubby and I left in the middle and took princess and her friend to the "pit" to catch a few songs by The Fray. I only say a few because they kinda all sound the same and I wanted to catch the end of Hank. I know, where is Pat and what have you done with her. Now, a couple of things I learned from Riverfest. Teen girls need some fashion advice and modesty and teen boys need to learn how to use deodorant. Seriously. Also, my motto as always, just because you can wear it does not mean you should. Yikes! Look in the mirror before you go outside people, please!
Saturday night my beautiful niece graduated from Maumelle High School. She looked beautiful and it was the shortest graduation ceremony I have been to. I am pretty sure it was under an hour. I am so proud of her. Graduating from high school is a major accomplishment. After the ceremony we took about a million pictures, really. But, it was fun and she had a lot of support there.
Now for the highlight of the weekend. Renewing our vows and lake time. It could not have been more perfect. Jody did a great job with the ceremony and Stephanie is the best scripture reader ever! Mark bought me beautiful pink roses to carry, which Ellie held during the ceremony so she finally got her wish fulfilled of being our flower girl and Jake was one of the photographers/videographers. Jody and Steph invited their friends Barb and Patrick and their two kids and also their friend David...all Subiaco peeps to go on the lake with us. Well, Patrick happens to be the proud owner of JJ Kelly Bridal in Oklahoma. Yes, I had the matchmakers as well as a wedding planner with us! He posed us and created a fabulous space for us to renew our vows. How awesome was that. He also videoed our ceremony and took great pictures for us. It could not have gone any better. So huge shout out to my wonderful friends, kids, and my new friends for helping make our day perfect. The weather was great. We had just enough cloud cover that we did not get sizzled and the water was chilly, but felt great. I loved it! Monday afternoon we had a cook out at the pool with all my Village peeps. We have done a pretty good job of keeping up with each other during the year so there wasn't too much to catch up on. In the great words of my friend K Hall's daughter, we should do this way more often, like every weekend. I love all of us being together! So do we, so do we.
Today has been exhausting and frustrating. I am dealing with some things I would rather not, but hey, that is life right? My tip for the day is to try and deal with the aggravating things in your life quickly and move on. I have a feeling this one will not go away as quick as I would like because some people just never grasp this concept. I on the other hand, do not have time for it. It takes up way too much negative space. Keep it happy people!
Hugs
Saturday night my beautiful niece graduated from Maumelle High School. She looked beautiful and it was the shortest graduation ceremony I have been to. I am pretty sure it was under an hour. I am so proud of her. Graduating from high school is a major accomplishment. After the ceremony we took about a million pictures, really. But, it was fun and she had a lot of support there.
Now for the highlight of the weekend. Renewing our vows and lake time. It could not have been more perfect. Jody did a great job with the ceremony and Stephanie is the best scripture reader ever! Mark bought me beautiful pink roses to carry, which Ellie held during the ceremony so she finally got her wish fulfilled of being our flower girl and Jake was one of the photographers/videographers. Jody and Steph invited their friends Barb and Patrick and their two kids and also their friend David...all Subiaco peeps to go on the lake with us. Well, Patrick happens to be the proud owner of JJ Kelly Bridal in Oklahoma. Yes, I had the matchmakers as well as a wedding planner with us! He posed us and created a fabulous space for us to renew our vows. How awesome was that. He also videoed our ceremony and took great pictures for us. It could not have gone any better. So huge shout out to my wonderful friends, kids, and my new friends for helping make our day perfect. The weather was great. We had just enough cloud cover that we did not get sizzled and the water was chilly, but felt great. I loved it! Monday afternoon we had a cook out at the pool with all my Village peeps. We have done a pretty good job of keeping up with each other during the year so there wasn't too much to catch up on. In the great words of my friend K Hall's daughter, we should do this way more often, like every weekend. I love all of us being together! So do we, so do we.
Today has been exhausting and frustrating. I am dealing with some things I would rather not, but hey, that is life right? My tip for the day is to try and deal with the aggravating things in your life quickly and move on. I have a feeling this one will not go away as quick as I would like because some people just never grasp this concept. I on the other hand, do not have time for it. It takes up way too much negative space. Keep it happy people!
Hugs
Friday, May 23, 2014
The story of us
Two years ago this Sunday, the 25th of May, at 4:00 pm I married my forever person. We have known each other since high school, his mom was one of my favorite teacher's in school, and through strange circumstances and fate we re met again almost 4 years ago and as the saying go, never looked back. We had both come out of long term marriages with kids and were hesitant to start again. I had resigned myself to living the rest of my life out as a single mom and was ok with that. I learned I would rather be alone then be with the wrong person. Plus, I had 2 amazing kids and it would be hard to find someone I would want in their lives as well as mine. On that beautiful July day on Lake Ouachita it was love(lust) at first sight. I knew he was joining us on the lake with his kids, I had Ellie with me, and thought, fun. I remember him from high school and he was friends with my brother. We got to the lake and ended up having to pick them up because the battery on their boat was dead and needed charging. Well, when I saw him, my heart literally skipped a beat. I have never had that happen to me. I don't know what it was about him, sure he was super cute and sexy, but there was something else about him. When we said hi to each other, I felt the electricity. I swear to you I am not making this up. I kinda shrugged all this off and thought maybe I was just lonely. We then started to talk and I definitely was feeling the spark. We had a fabulous day playing with all the kids and then waved goodbye. We then became facebook friends. Sending inbox messages and chatting. He was so funny. We found out we were going through similar situations and had so many things in common. One night while sitting at home I received a phone call. It was from a number I did not recognize, but I answered it anyway. He said hello and I said who is this? And he answered Mark, Mark Francis and I was so surprised. I asked him how he got my number and he said don't worry about it. Well we ended up talking for a couple of hours and I swear I was smiling the whole time. After a week or so we talked about going out, but wanted to make sure we were both ready. He made plans, but I backed out. I made plans, but he backed out. Finally, on September 20th, we went out on our first date. It was fantastic. We went to the Pantry, ate yummy food and watched Monday night football. We told each other we just wanted to be casual and not get serious. Well, a month or so later, I was asked out by someone else. I told Mark about it and he said I do not want you to go out with anyone else but me. I agreed and we have been inseparable ever since. I love him dearly and am so glad he is in my life as well as my kids. He is my love, my best friend, my rock, my lover, and my soul mate. He took the broken part of me and made it whole. I love you, sweetheart! Happy early Anniversary!
Hugs!!!!!
Hugs!!!!!
Thursday, May 22, 2014
Graduation
Don't you just love catching up with friends? I talked with one of my friends(she is more like a sister) last night and it feels like therapy. She vented, I vented, she lectured, I lectured, we got over it, we hugged and loved and it was all good. Her daughter is graduating on Saturday and we(the friend) and I have a kinda of odd situation. I met my friend way back in college while we were both working at Cajun's. Great restaurant go check it out! Anyway, we connected right away and I adore her. When I moved back in town, she was one of the first people I contacted and it was like we were never apart. Well, my friend was married to my husband's younger brother, and things are not very amicable between them. I feel like I got double bonus in this relationship though because one of my very dear friends is now technically an ex sister in law and her daughters are now my nieces by marriage-how cool is that! So, I explained how I was feeling about who to sit with, my best friend or my hubby's family. She said it did not matter to her and that she would be fine either way. Now, when I talked to hubby about it, he said let's just not sit with anyone and then no one would get upset or they would both be pissed, and then who cares anyway. So, I guess dilemma solved. I wish everyone would just get along and then I would not be faced with these difficult situations. But, people are sometimes crazy and do not know how to behave, so here we are. I am excited for graduation though. We are graduation full these next two weekends. Saturday afternoon, my lifetime friends from junior high's son is graduating. We are missing graduation, but are attending his luncheon celebration on Saturday. I am so proud of him and all he has accomplished. He is a true rock star. Of course, Saturday night is niece's graduation. Next weekend we are headed to Dallas to participate in my nephew's graduation festivities. Now, you know the saying, everything is bigger in Texas? Well that goes for graduation as well. My bro and sis in law have reserved us a box for graduation. Yes, I said a box. As in what you do at concerts or football games. Pretty fun and awesome if you ask me. Apparently there will be snacks and drinks and who cares if it starts at 10. It is 5 o'clock somewhere, right? After graduation, they are throwing him a pool party at their house. This should be awesome and the boys are very much looking forward to it. Lots of celebrating to be had these upcoming weekends and I could not be more excited.
Pool season starts this weekend. I miss pool season. I get to hang out with all my Village friends, play cards, eat, swim and all our kids get along. It is fabulous. My youngest stepson will be life guarding this summer at the pool so that will be great as well. I love having friends who help to employ the off spring.
Tip of the day: wear sunscreen. I am a sunbathing goddess, but I always try to wear sunscreen. I would say try to keep sun exposure to a minimum, but I do not follow this, and I try to practice what I preach, so wear some sunscreen. Your skin will thank you and you will not age as fast.
Have a great Thursday!
Hugs!
Pool season starts this weekend. I miss pool season. I get to hang out with all my Village friends, play cards, eat, swim and all our kids get along. It is fabulous. My youngest stepson will be life guarding this summer at the pool so that will be great as well. I love having friends who help to employ the off spring.
Tip of the day: wear sunscreen. I am a sunbathing goddess, but I always try to wear sunscreen. I would say try to keep sun exposure to a minimum, but I do not follow this, and I try to practice what I preach, so wear some sunscreen. Your skin will thank you and you will not age as fast.
Have a great Thursday!
Hugs!
Wednesday, May 21, 2014
Get Happy
Happy Hump Day!!!! I have seen a lot of negativity floating around lately and not so much happy. When did we become such a negative society. I was having this discussion with my son yesterday because he throws out a lot of negativity. I asked him to try being positive and complimentary every once in awhile and I bet he will see a difference in his outlook in life. Now, he is by no means depressed, just negative. So, why are we not happy? I have been thinking on this for quite awhile, but am not coming up with any answers, besides the popular "Let it go" option. So why are we negative? Have we stopped thinking about all the good stuff in our lives? Does the good news happen and we brush it aside because we have become so focused on the negative that we cannot let the good in? Well, let's figure out how to be happy again! Focus on the happy. Make a list(I love lists) about what makes you happy. I have a friend in Texas who is doing the 100 days of happy. You basically post a picture everyday of what makes you happy. I look forward to her pics because, well, they are happy. I probably will not do the 100 days because that is a huge commitment and I think I post enough happy things, so, really, I already participate. But, maybe you negative Nellys need this. I will start my list, just in case you need a reminder of what in your life makes you happy:
Hubby
Kids(all four)
Friends
Mom, Dad, and siblings
Summer
Beach
Happy Hour
Our Solstice
That we are all healthy
Out of the blue texts from friends
Being outside (when it is warm)
Coffee
Food
Family dinners
Flowers
Vacations
Love
Putting jeans the first day of fall
Cuddling
My animals
Pool
Do I need to keep going? I have so many more things. Way more than sad. But, like I said, let's focus on the happy. What makes you smile and laugh? Think about it and get back to me. Or, keep it to yourself and bring it out when the negatives seem to overwhelm. So come on and get Happy as the way overplayed song goes.
Tip of the day and a blog post all in one. That makes me happy too. Get your glass half full and enjoy the rest of your Wednesday. It is sunny and beautiful outside and my back yard is looking awesome!!!!
Hugs!!!!!
Hubby
Kids(all four)
Friends
Mom, Dad, and siblings
Summer
Beach
Happy Hour
Our Solstice
That we are all healthy
Out of the blue texts from friends
Being outside (when it is warm)
Coffee
Food
Family dinners
Flowers
Vacations
Love
Putting jeans the first day of fall
Cuddling
My animals
Pool
Do I need to keep going? I have so many more things. Way more than sad. But, like I said, let's focus on the happy. What makes you smile and laugh? Think about it and get back to me. Or, keep it to yourself and bring it out when the negatives seem to overwhelm. So come on and get Happy as the way overplayed song goes.
Tip of the day and a blog post all in one. That makes me happy too. Get your glass half full and enjoy the rest of your Wednesday. It is sunny and beautiful outside and my back yard is looking awesome!!!!
Hugs!!!!!
Tuesday, May 20, 2014
Time
Time? Where does it go? It seems the older we get the faster it goes by. Yesterday, my son brought home his high school year book. He is wrapping up his junior year this week and this time next year we will be preparing for his high school graduation. Yikes! He wants a party with a Sushi chef, so if anyone has any ideas of where I can hire a Sushi chef, let me know. I am having a hard time with grasping the concept that my baby boy is a senior in high school. I mean, seriously. I am tearing up whenever the subject is brought up. How in the world am I going to survive this next year and then send him off to college? I sound like a big ole whiny baby I know, but I cannot help it. Now, don't get me wrong. I am so proud of the man he is becoming and the things he has/is accomplishing. I am thrilled that he has worked hard and has the opportunity to be able to go off to college, but this is making mom sad. I am also trying to grasp the concept that my little girl is not so little anymore. Watching her dance on Friday night, confirmed the fact that she is definitely turning into quite the graceful young lady. I had several people suggest we try out for ballet Arkansas. Yes, we need another activity to add to her ever growing plate, but we might look into it. Who knows? Anyway, excuse me for being whiny, but I guess I have earned the right.
Speaking of babies, one of my co workers is at the hospital right now waiting on another grandchild to be born! It is one of her son's first born, but he is already a step dad so he has this dad thing down. It is so exciting. I love babies! It is awesome to see the nervousness and jitters from a first time parent. I remember those feelings all too well. But, to change topics, you do not need to be a parent to be a fulfilled adult. I say this, because a friend of mine, who is childless, constantly gets asked when her and her husband are going to have a baby and if not why? Seriously, this is really none of any one's business but theirs and why does it matter to anyone but them anyway? And, why would you even ask why not? Or when? I could see if you were the mom, but random friends, people, etc? Crazy. Now I admit I am curious, some call it nosy, but I just ignore them, but I know when to curb my curiosity. I love being a mom and step mom, but that does not mean everyone wants that path in life. So, if you have friends or relatives who choose to not be a dad or mom, quit asking and know that it is none of your concern.
So, hubby and I worked in the yard after work last night. I have so many things I want to do inside and out that I was becoming overwhelmed. There doesn't seem to be enough time to tackle them all, so yesterday I made a mental list of what needed to be done and decided to work on it a little at a time. I did not share that list with hubby so when he came out last night and shaped up our out of control hedges I was overjoyed. I did not ask and I love that. It's wonderful that we can work together and help the other out without being asked. Some couples cannot work together and I am so glad we can. So, I managed to get two things crossed off my list. Accomplishment!!! So now I have a cleaned off back patio area and beautiful hedges to look at. I love being outside so I need to clean up my happy place. Tonight I will tackle the downstairs patio. I love that we have two patio areas. I have created two different looks and functions so I can have the best of both worlds. The upstairs one is for eating and cooking. The downstairs has a workout bench and two Adirondack chairs with a matching table. I am working on decorating the downstairs a little more, but when I am downstairs I can look out on my roses while relaxing with the hubby or kids with a good book and a yummy drink. Hubby is an amazing bartender. Did I mention that I love our house. It is so peaceful and little by little we are creating our own space to come home to.
My tip for you today. Break your big tasks into small ones so they will not seem so overwhelming. You will also be able to check things off your list, which is a huge deal for me.
Hugs!!
Speaking of babies, one of my co workers is at the hospital right now waiting on another grandchild to be born! It is one of her son's first born, but he is already a step dad so he has this dad thing down. It is so exciting. I love babies! It is awesome to see the nervousness and jitters from a first time parent. I remember those feelings all too well. But, to change topics, you do not need to be a parent to be a fulfilled adult. I say this, because a friend of mine, who is childless, constantly gets asked when her and her husband are going to have a baby and if not why? Seriously, this is really none of any one's business but theirs and why does it matter to anyone but them anyway? And, why would you even ask why not? Or when? I could see if you were the mom, but random friends, people, etc? Crazy. Now I admit I am curious, some call it nosy, but I just ignore them, but I know when to curb my curiosity. I love being a mom and step mom, but that does not mean everyone wants that path in life. So, if you have friends or relatives who choose to not be a dad or mom, quit asking and know that it is none of your concern.
So, hubby and I worked in the yard after work last night. I have so many things I want to do inside and out that I was becoming overwhelmed. There doesn't seem to be enough time to tackle them all, so yesterday I made a mental list of what needed to be done and decided to work on it a little at a time. I did not share that list with hubby so when he came out last night and shaped up our out of control hedges I was overjoyed. I did not ask and I love that. It's wonderful that we can work together and help the other out without being asked. Some couples cannot work together and I am so glad we can. So, I managed to get two things crossed off my list. Accomplishment!!! So now I have a cleaned off back patio area and beautiful hedges to look at. I love being outside so I need to clean up my happy place. Tonight I will tackle the downstairs patio. I love that we have two patio areas. I have created two different looks and functions so I can have the best of both worlds. The upstairs one is for eating and cooking. The downstairs has a workout bench and two Adirondack chairs with a matching table. I am working on decorating the downstairs a little more, but when I am downstairs I can look out on my roses while relaxing with the hubby or kids with a good book and a yummy drink. Hubby is an amazing bartender. Did I mention that I love our house. It is so peaceful and little by little we are creating our own space to come home to.
My tip for you today. Break your big tasks into small ones so they will not seem so overwhelming. You will also be able to check things off your list, which is a huge deal for me.
Hugs!!
Monday, May 19, 2014
It's Monday!
Yipee! It is Monday. Not really, yippee for Monday, but the weather is fabulous outside, finally. What a dreary weather weekend. I was freezing! Hubby and I hit the Greek Food festival, hugged some necks(I love that southern saying), bought some baked goods, grabbed some Gyros and took off. I am not made for cold weather, AT ALL! I even turned the heat on this weekend. Hubby, of course, ran around in shorts all weekend, but not me. Long sleeves, jeans, jacket, and of course, flip flops. Boots are in storage and will not see the light of day until fall. Saw lots of Uggs this weekend, no thanks. They are made for winter only. After Easter, it is white shoes, white pants, and sandals all the way. Yes, I am a slave to the fashion rules, but hey, they work. Back to the food festival. Yummy. Love the gyros and the baked goods. Now, I know Little Rock offers a variety of wonderful Mediterranean eateries, but there is nothing like a Greek food festival gyro. I don't know if it is the flavor or the sentiment. I grew up in the Greek Orthodox church in Little Rock and when I go there it just feels like home. I love the people, the smells, and of course the food. Next year, I am thinking of dusting off the Greek dancing shoes and joining the dance troupe. I always enjoyed dancing and now that I am not in school, why not? I am not Greek, but Romanian. My mom grew up in a Serbian Orthodox church in Michigan and when her and my dad moved to Little Rock, the only Orthodox church was the Greek one, so we made it our church home. I love all the nationalities in our church. We are a true melting pot where everyone is accepted. What a concept, huh?
After the food festival, hubby and youngest stepson went to play basketball while I ran errands. I picked up hubby's anniversary gift. I am so excited for him to open it. I love giving gifts almost as much as receiving(I said almost) especially when I know I have picked the perfect one. I have already been given mine and I love it. Hubby bought us a photo album for our wedding pics. Yes, two years later they are still on a cd. So, we are going to create it, send it off and they will deliver it in about 2 weeks. I love it! I kept meaning to get around to creating a photo album, but I am so glad hubby took the time and beat me to it. I am hoping this week we can finish it and get it sent off. We started it, now just to finish.
Sunday afternoon, we met some friends at the Pantry to help the Pantry celebrate their 5 year Anniversary. They served paella, which was amazing and we had beer and wine. One of guests is the wine guy, sorry, the Sommelier, at Colonial Wine and Spirits and he ordered a fabulous Zinfandel. Good food, good wine and good friends, need anything else? I love the Pantry. It has a fabulous happy hour, the owner, Tomas, is a doll and it is where hubby and I had our first date. We also had our engagement dinner there, so it holds many special memories for me. I love that we have that. I am all about memories. I think that is why I take so many pictures. I love looking back and seeing how the kids have grown, the beginnings of a relationship, places I have been, etc. Anyway.....go visit the Pantry if you have not already. I am excited about the second location in Hillcrest. They are taking the spot where the House used to be. I would imagine I will be a frequent flyer at both locations, but I do like the fact they are coming closer to my neighborhood.
Tip of the day: Get back to it! Why do I say this? Mostly for myself. I hardly exercised last week and I can feel it. The weather turned cold and rainy, so the walking was out. I did continue my strength training. I do 125 bicycle sit ups, 30 crunches, 1 or so minute plank, 30 modified push ups and 45 or so squats. I am trying to get toned up for the summer. I can already tell a difference, but I only managed 3 days last week instead of my usual 5, so I need to get back to it. Am I kicking myself for falling off the routine, no. Life got busy and cold. Is that an excuse? Most certainly, but that does not mean I will give up all together. You should never give up. Always have an exercise routine. You will benefit from it and your clothes will fit better, I promise.
Anyway, enjoy your Monday and hug a friend. You can also hug a stranger, but be careful of the repercussions. Not everyone enjoys a hug like me.
Hugs!
After the food festival, hubby and youngest stepson went to play basketball while I ran errands. I picked up hubby's anniversary gift. I am so excited for him to open it. I love giving gifts almost as much as receiving(I said almost) especially when I know I have picked the perfect one. I have already been given mine and I love it. Hubby bought us a photo album for our wedding pics. Yes, two years later they are still on a cd. So, we are going to create it, send it off and they will deliver it in about 2 weeks. I love it! I kept meaning to get around to creating a photo album, but I am so glad hubby took the time and beat me to it. I am hoping this week we can finish it and get it sent off. We started it, now just to finish.
Sunday afternoon, we met some friends at the Pantry to help the Pantry celebrate their 5 year Anniversary. They served paella, which was amazing and we had beer and wine. One of guests is the wine guy, sorry, the Sommelier, at Colonial Wine and Spirits and he ordered a fabulous Zinfandel. Good food, good wine and good friends, need anything else? I love the Pantry. It has a fabulous happy hour, the owner, Tomas, is a doll and it is where hubby and I had our first date. We also had our engagement dinner there, so it holds many special memories for me. I love that we have that. I am all about memories. I think that is why I take so many pictures. I love looking back and seeing how the kids have grown, the beginnings of a relationship, places I have been, etc. Anyway.....go visit the Pantry if you have not already. I am excited about the second location in Hillcrest. They are taking the spot where the House used to be. I would imagine I will be a frequent flyer at both locations, but I do like the fact they are coming closer to my neighborhood.
Tip of the day: Get back to it! Why do I say this? Mostly for myself. I hardly exercised last week and I can feel it. The weather turned cold and rainy, so the walking was out. I did continue my strength training. I do 125 bicycle sit ups, 30 crunches, 1 or so minute plank, 30 modified push ups and 45 or so squats. I am trying to get toned up for the summer. I can already tell a difference, but I only managed 3 days last week instead of my usual 5, so I need to get back to it. Am I kicking myself for falling off the routine, no. Life got busy and cold. Is that an excuse? Most certainly, but that does not mean I will give up all together. You should never give up. Always have an exercise routine. You will benefit from it and your clothes will fit better, I promise.
Anyway, enjoy your Monday and hug a friend. You can also hug a stranger, but be careful of the repercussions. Not everyone enjoys a hug like me.
Hugs!
Friday, May 16, 2014
Friday fun day!
Yippee! It is Friday. What a week! Busy at work, busy at life....ready for a nice and relaxing Saturday and Sunday. Tonight, princess has her dance recital at school. She is in two dances this year because she made dance ensemble. The teacher hand picks these kids and they get to travel and do extra dances. It has been very cool because I have had the privilege of seeing her dance many times this year. She is absolutely beautiful and graceful. The opposite of me. I have no grace. I am constantly tripping and bumping into things. Luckily I have so much practice I rarely fall. Anyway, she performs at 7:00 tonight and I can hardly wait. Her recital outfit is beautiful!!! She was also chosen to be a member of the National Honor Society this week. So she will be busy next year! Cheerleader, Beta Club, NHS, student council, soccer player, dance ensemble, phew!!! But, good for her. She likes to be involved.
I hope everyone who can will come out to the Greek Food Festival. This is the 30 year anniversary. Wow! I remember dancing at the first. Kinda makes me feel old, but not. I still feel 20 even though my mirror says different. Hope you can make it out. The food is awesome and the entertainment is terrific. It runs tonight, Saturday and Sunday. That is about the only plan I have for this weekend, thank goodness. Our weeks and weekends have been so busy it will be nice to have a break.
So yesterday I had lunch with my new beautiful blonde bff, AM. She is awesome. I met her through one of my ya ya's and we just hit it off. She is funny, smart, beautiful, and inspiring. She was training to run her first 5K with WRA through Saline County and pulled it off in spades. She also works out at a gym in Benton and I am threatening to join her for the 1k calorie burn class on Tuesday nights. I think I would get my tail whopped, but hey, once for the story, as my hubby always says. Speaking of first things, hubby and I bowled in our first ever bowling tournament on Wednesday night. We have great friends who are home brewers, remember my awesome foam fest experience?, well this was a craft brew/home brewers tournament. What a blast! Met some wonderful people, drank fabulous beer and got to hang out with two of my favorite people in the world. I will admit, I kinda suck at bowling, so no prizes were won, but that was not really the point. I am not a competitive person. I just like to go out and have fun. That is the point of life, right???
Speaking of fun and life and such, our 2 year wedding anniversary is next Sunday. I know! Can you believe it?? Life is flying by. Anyway, we have decided to renew our vows. We have had some things come up over the last two years that could have split us apart, but each time we decided our marriage was worth the aggravation brought out by others and we want to celebrate it. We "re met" on Lake Ouachita through mutual friends and we decided to renew our vows on the boat at the very same place we found each other again. Luckily, our boat captain has license to do this, so it will be awesome. I am even thinking of wearing a white bikini. But maybe not, because no one wants a see through swimsuit, so who knows. I am very much looking forward to this as I absolutely adore and love my hubby and I am just as excited to marry him again as I was the first time.
It is going to be a fabulous weekend, so I hope you have some fabulous plans. My tip today? Do not overindulge. Too much of a good thing, is not always a good thing. Stop at just the cheeseburger, do you need the fries? Have a handful of m & m's instead of a whole bag. Make good choices and they will be good to you.
Hugs!!!!
I hope everyone who can will come out to the Greek Food Festival. This is the 30 year anniversary. Wow! I remember dancing at the first. Kinda makes me feel old, but not. I still feel 20 even though my mirror says different. Hope you can make it out. The food is awesome and the entertainment is terrific. It runs tonight, Saturday and Sunday. That is about the only plan I have for this weekend, thank goodness. Our weeks and weekends have been so busy it will be nice to have a break.
So yesterday I had lunch with my new beautiful blonde bff, AM. She is awesome. I met her through one of my ya ya's and we just hit it off. She is funny, smart, beautiful, and inspiring. She was training to run her first 5K with WRA through Saline County and pulled it off in spades. She also works out at a gym in Benton and I am threatening to join her for the 1k calorie burn class on Tuesday nights. I think I would get my tail whopped, but hey, once for the story, as my hubby always says. Speaking of first things, hubby and I bowled in our first ever bowling tournament on Wednesday night. We have great friends who are home brewers, remember my awesome foam fest experience?, well this was a craft brew/home brewers tournament. What a blast! Met some wonderful people, drank fabulous beer and got to hang out with two of my favorite people in the world. I will admit, I kinda suck at bowling, so no prizes were won, but that was not really the point. I am not a competitive person. I just like to go out and have fun. That is the point of life, right???
Speaking of fun and life and such, our 2 year wedding anniversary is next Sunday. I know! Can you believe it?? Life is flying by. Anyway, we have decided to renew our vows. We have had some things come up over the last two years that could have split us apart, but each time we decided our marriage was worth the aggravation brought out by others and we want to celebrate it. We "re met" on Lake Ouachita through mutual friends and we decided to renew our vows on the boat at the very same place we found each other again. Luckily, our boat captain has license to do this, so it will be awesome. I am even thinking of wearing a white bikini. But maybe not, because no one wants a see through swimsuit, so who knows. I am very much looking forward to this as I absolutely adore and love my hubby and I am just as excited to marry him again as I was the first time.
It is going to be a fabulous weekend, so I hope you have some fabulous plans. My tip today? Do not overindulge. Too much of a good thing, is not always a good thing. Stop at just the cheeseburger, do you need the fries? Have a handful of m & m's instead of a whole bag. Make good choices and they will be good to you.
Hugs!!!!
Wednesday, May 14, 2014
Love is in the air
Happy hump day! I am not overly happy today because someone turned off the damn heater outside! Cat, I am coming to get you in an inside facility this time so I won't shiver. If you saw my facebook post last night you would understand this, if not, go catch up. It's pretty funny.
I normally do not engage in controversial topics because I can't stand when people tell me I am wrong in how I think. I have reasons why I think the way I do and I do not need you to berate me about it. You are not going to change my mind on facebook, twitter, blog posting, or whatever social media you engage yourself in. So, stop. You can have a different opinion than I do, of course, but be nice about it. So here goes. Arkansas, as of Monday, has made gay marriage legal. Honestly, love is love. Regardless of who it is between. If you love someone, go get married. Why it was illegal in the first place I am not really sure. People do have some old fashioned beliefs, as do I, and I guess they feel the need to fight for it. I am pretty passionate about some things that I would most assuredly take a stand on, so I guess those people have the right to boycott what they think is wrong. I am very happy we made it legal, though. I would be crushed if someone told me I could not have married my Mark. Someone did suggest strongly that we live together first in case it did not work out. Seriously, that cracks me up. I love my Mark and he loves me, why would I not want to marry him. We wanted to share our lives together, forever. We wanted to make it legal and show our forever commitment to each other. Why shouldn't everyone be given that chance. So, for all the Arkansans who were and are marrying this week, Congratulations!!!!
I am so sleepy today. I got plenty of sleep last night, so what is up??? I fell asleep at 9:00 last night which is completely odd for me. Hubby and I are usually up until 11:00 or so every night, but we were seriously snoring at 9:15 last night. We kissed and hugged the kiddos last night(yes, I still do that even though they are teens) shut the lights out and crashed. I don't think I budged until I felt hubby snuggle up against me this morning. The animals have a schedule and even though we are sleeping they sometimes do not get the message. Luckily, hubby has this job. He can usually get up, let them out and then fall back asleep within seconds. Me, I would get up and then not be able to fall back asleep. Very annoying. I am about to break out the caffeinated coffee to help me wake up! I normally drink decaf, but I think I need some help this morning. Maybe, I'll bring out the diet coke instead. Or maybe I will just go home at lunch and take a nap and see if that helps. Or maybe I will just go home. Ahhhhh....that sounds like the best idea of all.
Senior take over day is Thursday at Catholic High School. This means that as of Thursday I will officially have a Senior in high school. Yikes! I will be a weepy mess on Thursday, so waterproof mascara is a must for tomorrow.
Enjoy the rain and for you crazies out there, enjoy the cooler temperatures. I hope it won't last!
Hugs!
I normally do not engage in controversial topics because I can't stand when people tell me I am wrong in how I think. I have reasons why I think the way I do and I do not need you to berate me about it. You are not going to change my mind on facebook, twitter, blog posting, or whatever social media you engage yourself in. So, stop. You can have a different opinion than I do, of course, but be nice about it. So here goes. Arkansas, as of Monday, has made gay marriage legal. Honestly, love is love. Regardless of who it is between. If you love someone, go get married. Why it was illegal in the first place I am not really sure. People do have some old fashioned beliefs, as do I, and I guess they feel the need to fight for it. I am pretty passionate about some things that I would most assuredly take a stand on, so I guess those people have the right to boycott what they think is wrong. I am very happy we made it legal, though. I would be crushed if someone told me I could not have married my Mark. Someone did suggest strongly that we live together first in case it did not work out. Seriously, that cracks me up. I love my Mark and he loves me, why would I not want to marry him. We wanted to share our lives together, forever. We wanted to make it legal and show our forever commitment to each other. Why shouldn't everyone be given that chance. So, for all the Arkansans who were and are marrying this week, Congratulations!!!!
I am so sleepy today. I got plenty of sleep last night, so what is up??? I fell asleep at 9:00 last night which is completely odd for me. Hubby and I are usually up until 11:00 or so every night, but we were seriously snoring at 9:15 last night. We kissed and hugged the kiddos last night(yes, I still do that even though they are teens) shut the lights out and crashed. I don't think I budged until I felt hubby snuggle up against me this morning. The animals have a schedule and even though we are sleeping they sometimes do not get the message. Luckily, hubby has this job. He can usually get up, let them out and then fall back asleep within seconds. Me, I would get up and then not be able to fall back asleep. Very annoying. I am about to break out the caffeinated coffee to help me wake up! I normally drink decaf, but I think I need some help this morning. Maybe, I'll bring out the diet coke instead. Or maybe I will just go home at lunch and take a nap and see if that helps. Or maybe I will just go home. Ahhhhh....that sounds like the best idea of all.
Senior take over day is Thursday at Catholic High School. This means that as of Thursday I will officially have a Senior in high school. Yikes! I will be a weepy mess on Thursday, so waterproof mascara is a must for tomorrow.
Enjoy the rain and for you crazies out there, enjoy the cooler temperatures. I hope it won't last!
Hugs!
Tuesday, May 13, 2014
Something new
It's raining, it's pouring, the old man is snoring, the lights went out, the lightening show was cool....
Yes, rain, rain, and more rain. That is the forecast for the day. I do not like weather unless it is sunny and warm. Yes, snow is pretty, but it is also cold, blech. But, I did something last night I have never done before. A friend posted on facebook last night about the cool lightening storm that was happening. Now, I am scared of thunderstorms. I do not like them Sam I am. I do not know why, I just don't. Well, I am all about doing things that are new to me, so out I went. I grabbed my favorite Adirondack chair, my phone, and positioned myself to the best (and safest) vantage point. Wowzer! It was beautiful. I was scared and awed all at the same time. Now, when hubby came home and joined me, I felt safer. He has that effect on me. Will I do it again, maybe from a screened in porch, but I am glad I did it. What is your something new you have tried? Life is too short to miss out on all the wonderful things out there.
Someone posted a picture today that says "Fitness is 20% exercise and 80% nutrition. You can't outrun your fork". Is this true? I think to an extent it is. I know active people who are still overweight because they do not couple the exercise with good nutrition. One of my bff's is an ultra runner. By this I mean she runs all the time. It is nothing for her to crank out 6 miles one day and 12 miles another. She said she does this so she can drink wine and eat chocolate. That always makes me laugh because she is such a clean eater. She really pays attention to what goes into her body and that makes all the difference in the world. Now, she does drink her wine and eat her chocolate, but in modification...the chocolate not the wine, lol. Just kidding, love you JP! So, this is my tip of the day. Balance your exercise and nutrition. Do not go all in on one and not the other and make sure you are getting in all your calories so your body is burning the fat and not the nutrition.
My hubby is a huge music lover. He has been sending me fun songs to listen to all morning. He is definitely lifting my grey, rainy mood. He is a keeper.
Have a lovely rainy day. I am taking the fam tonight to feast on all you can eat pancakes, bacon, and sausage....does it get any better????? Luckily I am making healthy choices today so I can pig out tonight.
Hugs!!!
Yes, rain, rain, and more rain. That is the forecast for the day. I do not like weather unless it is sunny and warm. Yes, snow is pretty, but it is also cold, blech. But, I did something last night I have never done before. A friend posted on facebook last night about the cool lightening storm that was happening. Now, I am scared of thunderstorms. I do not like them Sam I am. I do not know why, I just don't. Well, I am all about doing things that are new to me, so out I went. I grabbed my favorite Adirondack chair, my phone, and positioned myself to the best (and safest) vantage point. Wowzer! It was beautiful. I was scared and awed all at the same time. Now, when hubby came home and joined me, I felt safer. He has that effect on me. Will I do it again, maybe from a screened in porch, but I am glad I did it. What is your something new you have tried? Life is too short to miss out on all the wonderful things out there.
Someone posted a picture today that says "Fitness is 20% exercise and 80% nutrition. You can't outrun your fork". Is this true? I think to an extent it is. I know active people who are still overweight because they do not couple the exercise with good nutrition. One of my bff's is an ultra runner. By this I mean she runs all the time. It is nothing for her to crank out 6 miles one day and 12 miles another. She said she does this so she can drink wine and eat chocolate. That always makes me laugh because she is such a clean eater. She really pays attention to what goes into her body and that makes all the difference in the world. Now, she does drink her wine and eat her chocolate, but in modification...the chocolate not the wine, lol. Just kidding, love you JP! So, this is my tip of the day. Balance your exercise and nutrition. Do not go all in on one and not the other and make sure you are getting in all your calories so your body is burning the fat and not the nutrition.
My hubby is a huge music lover. He has been sending me fun songs to listen to all morning. He is definitely lifting my grey, rainy mood. He is a keeper.
Have a lovely rainy day. I am taking the fam tonight to feast on all you can eat pancakes, bacon, and sausage....does it get any better????? Luckily I am making healthy choices today so I can pig out tonight.
Hugs!!!
Monday, May 12, 2014
Putting memories in a bottle
Happy Monday. Normally, not my favorite day, but I had such a great yesterday, that I am still riding high on the happies. I had a wonderful mother's day. My hubby started the day off with a wonderful surprise. I came out of the bathroom and had gorgeous purple Iris's, a card, and what I thought was a box of chocolates. I thanked him profusely, because I love that he celebrates me as a mother even though we do not have any biological kids together. I sat on the bed and proceeded to open what I thought was a box of chocolates, because that sounded yummy at 8 am, and when I opened the box it was a beautiful necklace! It was a charm necklace exclusively for the kids. It has a silver mother bird looking over her children and then there are 4 silver bars with all 4 of our kids names on them and a green jewel. I asked him about the green jewel and he said it was the stone of the month we were married and became a family. Well, I started bawling. Not crying, but nose sniffling, bawling. It was so sweet. He thanked me for welcoming his children as my own, regardless of how they accept it, and told me I was a great mother to my children. He is awesome times a million. After I cleaned my face, we headed to Mylo's for breakfast. Yummo. They were busy! I love it. We then went to Kroger, to buy food for a cookout we were hosting in two hours. We had such a busy Saturday that everything got left to the last minute. We got home and the kids greeted me with Happy Mother's Day. Ellie and Jake got me a gift card, 2 lbs of Jelly Bellies(love those things), and Jake wrote me a poem and Ellie drew me lots of pictures and cards. Loved it! Another round of crying because I was seriously sappy yesterday. We all then pitched in, cleaned the house and got everything ready for our cookout. We hosted my mom and dad, hubby's mom and dad and Mark's younger brother Tony. I hugged my mom extra tight yesterday because I have not seen her in a couple of months(they have been out of town) and I have 3 friends who have recently lost their moms so I felt extra thankful to still be able to do that. I love that our parents get along. My ex's mom and dad lived out of town so it was rare that we all got together, so I love having both sets over. After lunch, the boys took their mom to the movies. My mom in law raised some good boys, for the most part, and I definitely got the best one! No offense, Joe and Tony. Ellie and I played a heated game of war and Jake went and got me a Starbucks and had them write "mom" on the cup. I love them. When Mark got home, we sat outside and drank a great bloody mary and enjoyed the great weather. Rader came by to pick up his car last night and told me happy mother's day as he drove off. That made my heart smile. I love the bonus things in life that are not expected. Mark and I then snuggled up on the couch and watched a movie and then went to bed. If I could put yesterday in a bottle, I would.
I am going backwards on my weekend, because I wanted to start out with the happiest. Saturday, I was up way too early, but was happy to do so because it was Women Run Arkansas 5K Graduation. I love these ladies and they have been such a joy to hang out with. The two ladies I walked with had never done a race. It was so exciting to be able to experience this with them. And, yes, I cried when we crossed the finish line. These ladies have worked so hard for this. Words cannot describe how I feel about this program. It is wonderful to see the ladies every week and help them accomplish their goals. I am undecided which made me feel more accomplished, finishing a half marathon last Sunday or working with these ladies. I think I am going with the latter. It is much more satisfying to help others than yourself. After the 5K, which my hubby and kids came out for to cheer us on, we rushed home to shower and change for a friends mom's funeral. You remember I wrote about it on Friday. We were at the visitation Friday night, and I literally felt my heart break for her children. I have seen sorrow in my life, but nothing prepared me for this. First of all, I cannot imagine what it would be like to have my mom die all of a sudden without warning. I am not saying it makes it easier when you know, but at least you are semi prepared. To get that phone call...shivers. I hugged and visited with the youngest sister who is just a gem of a person, and then I went to the next sister, my friend, that I have not spoken with in over a year. It just melted away. In a situation like that, those feelings and grudges just go away. I then went and hugged older sister and each one were trying to be so strong, but sometimes, even the strongest just melts. I have met brother just a couple of times, so I just told him I was sorry and gave him a quick hug. The grandchildren were holding it together and one of them, a son, got up and spoke after the rosary. It was beautiful and gave me something to ponder on. I will share the words with you later as I am still trying to get through them myself. Before the rosary started, I went to the ladies room and when I came out, my friend was walking in to the foyer and she broke down and I just hugged on her. I said all the appropriate things, but like I said, my heart was broken for her and there really is not anything to say that will make it better. The saddest thing I heard her say was who am I going to hug on Mother's Day? So I hope everyone told their mom happy mother's day and appreciated the fact that you got to do so. So please keep the Bell family in your prayers as they deal with this massive loss in their family.
Saturday night was a nice change of pace as we went to see Mark's dad sing in Diamond State Chorus. Tons of fun. He really enjoys doing this and it is fun to watch. After, we had nice Guinness at Creegan's and then literally fell in to bed and fell fast asleep. Exhausting day.
Tip of the day: Love the people you surround yourself with. Don't take advantage of them and appreciate them everyday as you never know when they will be gone.
Hugs!
I am going backwards on my weekend, because I wanted to start out with the happiest. Saturday, I was up way too early, but was happy to do so because it was Women Run Arkansas 5K Graduation. I love these ladies and they have been such a joy to hang out with. The two ladies I walked with had never done a race. It was so exciting to be able to experience this with them. And, yes, I cried when we crossed the finish line. These ladies have worked so hard for this. Words cannot describe how I feel about this program. It is wonderful to see the ladies every week and help them accomplish their goals. I am undecided which made me feel more accomplished, finishing a half marathon last Sunday or working with these ladies. I think I am going with the latter. It is much more satisfying to help others than yourself. After the 5K, which my hubby and kids came out for to cheer us on, we rushed home to shower and change for a friends mom's funeral. You remember I wrote about it on Friday. We were at the visitation Friday night, and I literally felt my heart break for her children. I have seen sorrow in my life, but nothing prepared me for this. First of all, I cannot imagine what it would be like to have my mom die all of a sudden without warning. I am not saying it makes it easier when you know, but at least you are semi prepared. To get that phone call...shivers. I hugged and visited with the youngest sister who is just a gem of a person, and then I went to the next sister, my friend, that I have not spoken with in over a year. It just melted away. In a situation like that, those feelings and grudges just go away. I then went and hugged older sister and each one were trying to be so strong, but sometimes, even the strongest just melts. I have met brother just a couple of times, so I just told him I was sorry and gave him a quick hug. The grandchildren were holding it together and one of them, a son, got up and spoke after the rosary. It was beautiful and gave me something to ponder on. I will share the words with you later as I am still trying to get through them myself. Before the rosary started, I went to the ladies room and when I came out, my friend was walking in to the foyer and she broke down and I just hugged on her. I said all the appropriate things, but like I said, my heart was broken for her and there really is not anything to say that will make it better. The saddest thing I heard her say was who am I going to hug on Mother's Day? So I hope everyone told their mom happy mother's day and appreciated the fact that you got to do so. So please keep the Bell family in your prayers as they deal with this massive loss in their family.
Saturday night was a nice change of pace as we went to see Mark's dad sing in Diamond State Chorus. Tons of fun. He really enjoys doing this and it is fun to watch. After, we had nice Guinness at Creegan's and then literally fell in to bed and fell fast asleep. Exhausting day.
Tip of the day: Love the people you surround yourself with. Don't take advantage of them and appreciate them everyday as you never know when they will be gone.
Hugs!
Friday, May 9, 2014
Sad and Happy all at once
Happy Friday! So sorry I missed posting yesterday, but when I started to write, I got sad and I was not ready to be sad. A childhood friend of my husband's and a girl I went to school with lost her mother Wednesday night. It was all of a sudden, out of the blue. Now Mark and I have had a falling out with this girl and have not spoken for over a year (childish, I know, but that is how it is) but we have maintained contact with the other siblings and this girl's children, so of course we are going to attend the funeral. The girl reached out to Mark yesterday and asked if he would be a pall bearer and of course he said yes. I am glad we will be able to put aside hurt feelings to celebrate this wonderful woman. I have met her a few times and she welcomed me with open arms. My hubby has very fond memories of this mom and is very honored to be able to celebrate her this way. I have had 3 people I know lose their mom's in the last 4 months. My mom and dad are still alive as our Mark's and we are so very thankful. On Sunday, we will be having everyone over for a cookout to celebrate our moms and a part of me will be hurting for all my friends who do not have a mom to celebrate. So, be thankful for the people in your life because you never know when it will be your last day with them.
Ok, on to brighter topics. Tomorrow is our celebration Women Run Arkansas 5K Graduation. I am so excited! I have witnessed so many wonderful women not only accomplish their fitness goals but surpass them as well. The look on their faces are priceless. I have been blessed beyond to be a part of their lives and this group. We are going to continue our clinic so many more can accomplish the goals they have yet to achieve and work on new ones. It will be hot, but worth it. They had the sprinklers on yesterday (in the rain!) so hopefully that continues because that will feel so good in mid June. Come join us! We will meet Monday and Thursday from 6-7. There are no sign ups and it is welcome to all age groups and genders. I know hubby will be joining as well as the Princess. I may even get the boys to join, who knows?
I am on a hunt for a car for my son. He has been without a car for too long. Sharing is getting old. Now, in our family, the teen drivers are responsible for their gas and maintenance on their cars, such as an oil change, new wiper blades, etc. This is understood when they are given a car. We bought the cars and pay for their insurance, so I do not believe the other expenses are too much to ask. Taking ownership instead of just receiving handouts creates responsibility and maturity. Jake always thinks twice about just cruising around since he is responsible for gas. And it helps them learn how to budget, because everyone needs to be on some type of budget. I know, I am a hard ass, but I am getting ready to send these people out into the real world on their own and they need to know how to take care of themselves.
Here is to a wonderful weekend. Enjoy your families and friends. Take a moment to pray about those who are hurting this weekend and please give someone a hug. It sure feels good!
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Hugs!!!!!!
Ok, on to brighter topics. Tomorrow is our celebration Women Run Arkansas 5K Graduation. I am so excited! I have witnessed so many wonderful women not only accomplish their fitness goals but surpass them as well. The look on their faces are priceless. I have been blessed beyond to be a part of their lives and this group. We are going to continue our clinic so many more can accomplish the goals they have yet to achieve and work on new ones. It will be hot, but worth it. They had the sprinklers on yesterday (in the rain!) so hopefully that continues because that will feel so good in mid June. Come join us! We will meet Monday and Thursday from 6-7. There are no sign ups and it is welcome to all age groups and genders. I know hubby will be joining as well as the Princess. I may even get the boys to join, who knows?
I am on a hunt for a car for my son. He has been without a car for too long. Sharing is getting old. Now, in our family, the teen drivers are responsible for their gas and maintenance on their cars, such as an oil change, new wiper blades, etc. This is understood when they are given a car. We bought the cars and pay for their insurance, so I do not believe the other expenses are too much to ask. Taking ownership instead of just receiving handouts creates responsibility and maturity. Jake always thinks twice about just cruising around since he is responsible for gas. And it helps them learn how to budget, because everyone needs to be on some type of budget. I know, I am a hard ass, but I am getting ready to send these people out into the real world on their own and they need to know how to take care of themselves.
Here is to a wonderful weekend. Enjoy your families and friends. Take a moment to pray about those who are hurting this weekend and please give someone a hug. It sure feels good!
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Hugs!!!!!!
Wednesday, May 7, 2014
Goals-I need them
Happy Hump Day!!!! Happy National Teacher's Day! Happy Nurses's Week! Happy Bike or Walk to School Day! Jake, unfortunately is celebrating the last one as the Altima was not wanting to start this morning. Luckily it is a beautiful day and we live about a 1/4 mile from where he goes to school and why do they have to drive to school anyway??? Walk and get some exercise! Anyway, hubby is going to look at it at lunch and hopefully it is a quick and cheap fix. Key word here is cheap.
I need some help. I need a new goal to work on. I have scratched 2 major things off my bucket list in 6 months, graduating from college, and completing a half marathon. What is next??? I love yoga and thought about getting more into that, perhaps an instructor, but I'm not sure. I do not want to go back to school, so don't even suggest I get my Masters. I was offered a scholarship and said no. Maybe in a few years, but doubtful. 2 1/2 years of straight school is enough for me. So, got any ideas? I am not looking at travel things. More of something to improve myself. Think on it and give me some ideas, please.
Tip of the Day: The other day I saw one of those e-cards and it said something to the effect of I do not need diet tips from a skinny girl, thank you very much. I know these are supposed to be funny, but I got to thinking? Why not? Obviously a skinny or as I like to say, fit girl, knows what to do. When I was struggling with Statistics I asked the Professor or the A student for help. I was not going to ask the D or F student because they obviously have not figured it out either. Before I did the half marathon, I asked my running friends for advice, so why not ask your fit friends for advice on eating habits and exercise habits? Most of us do have some good advice to share instead of I just eat whatever I want and never gain weight. Now granted, I am kinda that person, but I do not overeat and I have always exercised on a regular basis, so there is some thinking that goes into what I do.
I have my first cheer mom meeting today. Should be interesting. The girls are getting fitted for their uniforms and Ellie is so excited as am I. I love when my kids accomplish things they have worked so hard to achieve. After, Ellie has tumbling and she is dying to let her coach know she made the cheer team. They have all worked so patiently with her and will be just as happy as we are to know she made it. She goes to CCU in Little Rock and they are truly awesome. Give it a try. They have competitive cheer teams, but she just does the tumbling classes. I will say, my hubby is really getting into all this. He has two boys, so Ellie is a whole new, and I will say, wonderful experience for him. It has been so fun watching them bond together and watch Mark be a "girl dad". Yes, I know Ellie's dad is Steve, good gosh I was there and do not need to be reminded, and he is a good dad, but Ellie also has Mark who has been a very significant part of her life for the last 3 years so I am not going to demean his role by some stupid title. I feel the same way about my kid's step mom. If you have an issue with it, it has to do with yourself and your insecurities. Get over yourself and let your children have a relationship with that person and who cares if they call the other mom or dad. I am thankful my kids have another supportive adult in their life who has love and accepted them as their own. Anyway, hubby took her to cheer tryouts because I was out of town and they had so much fun talking about all the girls trying out and the different styles of the girls. I love watching them together.
Have a beautiful Wednesday my friends!!! You deserve it.
Hugs!
I need some help. I need a new goal to work on. I have scratched 2 major things off my bucket list in 6 months, graduating from college, and completing a half marathon. What is next??? I love yoga and thought about getting more into that, perhaps an instructor, but I'm not sure. I do not want to go back to school, so don't even suggest I get my Masters. I was offered a scholarship and said no. Maybe in a few years, but doubtful. 2 1/2 years of straight school is enough for me. So, got any ideas? I am not looking at travel things. More of something to improve myself. Think on it and give me some ideas, please.
Tip of the Day: The other day I saw one of those e-cards and it said something to the effect of I do not need diet tips from a skinny girl, thank you very much. I know these are supposed to be funny, but I got to thinking? Why not? Obviously a skinny or as I like to say, fit girl, knows what to do. When I was struggling with Statistics I asked the Professor or the A student for help. I was not going to ask the D or F student because they obviously have not figured it out either. Before I did the half marathon, I asked my running friends for advice, so why not ask your fit friends for advice on eating habits and exercise habits? Most of us do have some good advice to share instead of I just eat whatever I want and never gain weight. Now granted, I am kinda that person, but I do not overeat and I have always exercised on a regular basis, so there is some thinking that goes into what I do.
I have my first cheer mom meeting today. Should be interesting. The girls are getting fitted for their uniforms and Ellie is so excited as am I. I love when my kids accomplish things they have worked so hard to achieve. After, Ellie has tumbling and she is dying to let her coach know she made the cheer team. They have all worked so patiently with her and will be just as happy as we are to know she made it. She goes to CCU in Little Rock and they are truly awesome. Give it a try. They have competitive cheer teams, but she just does the tumbling classes. I will say, my hubby is really getting into all this. He has two boys, so Ellie is a whole new, and I will say, wonderful experience for him. It has been so fun watching them bond together and watch Mark be a "girl dad". Yes, I know Ellie's dad is Steve, good gosh I was there and do not need to be reminded, and he is a good dad, but Ellie also has Mark who has been a very significant part of her life for the last 3 years so I am not going to demean his role by some stupid title. I feel the same way about my kid's step mom. If you have an issue with it, it has to do with yourself and your insecurities. Get over yourself and let your children have a relationship with that person and who cares if they call the other mom or dad. I am thankful my kids have another supportive adult in their life who has love and accepted them as their own. Anyway, hubby took her to cheer tryouts because I was out of town and they had so much fun talking about all the girls trying out and the different styles of the girls. I love watching them together.
Have a beautiful Wednesday my friends!!! You deserve it.
Hugs!
Tuesday, May 6, 2014
Celebration Time!
Happy Tuesday! I am still super sore from Sunday, but managed 5 laps with my Women Run Arkansas peeps last night, and I think I pushed it too much. Definitely a rest day today. I have met some wonderful women through this program. This is our last week and we have the 5K graduation on Saturday in Conway. I saw the medal and it is Awesome!!! It even has a butterfly on it. I am not saying they did that for me especially, but it is a strange coincidence. I am excited to see these women accomplish the goals they have worked so hard for. I have enjoyed being co director and loved being a Walker leader. I can hardly wait until next year. Now, after Memorial Day weekend, we will still be meeting at War Memorial on Mondays and possibly Thursdays from 6-7 for continued exercise, so come and join us! No need to sign up, just bring yourself and water...it is getting warm outside (wee!!!!) so you want to keep hydrated.
We had great news all over the Francis/Bosch house in the last 2 days. Rader, the youngest stepson, is now a certified lifeguard! He will be overseeing my friends and our kids and all our activities. Hmmm...maybe this was not the best choice on my part....just kidding. I am excited for him to start. We also found out that Ellie made the Horace Mann cheer leading squad!!! She did not make it last year and has worked really hard over the last year to improve her tumbling and it paid off. Now I am an official cheer mom...Lord help us all! Ellie was also invited to join the Beta Club for next year. Smart and beautiful...she has it all. I am so blessed that I have great students. Everyone is pretty much an A student and only need a little bit of pushing in the academic part of their lives. No matter how smart your kids are, you still need to be involved and make sure they are making right choices. Sometimes they can forget to prioritize and become overwhelmed so make sure you are checking in with them on a regular basis so they do not get behind. Most kids do not like to ask for help until they are way behind and then it is a struggle to get them back on track. We are always parents. Just because they become more independent does not need we need to forget about them. Keep attending their games, their ceremonies, and talk to them about homework, grades, colleges, etc. They still need us despite what they tell us.
Tip of the day: get a massage. Hubby gave me the absolute best massage last night on my feet and legs trying to work out the soreness. It felt amazing! I am still sore, but I feel my flexibility coming back. Now, you may not have someone who has talented and strong hands like my husband does, so treat yourself. I always get hubby a massage for Valentine's Day because I am not strong enough to get into the deep muscle tissue on his legs. He has massive calf muscles from all the years playing soccer...mmmm. Anyway, it feels good and is not that pricey. I have a great friend, sister really, who is a massage therapist and if you need her info let me know!
Have a fabulous Tuesday and get some rest if you need it. I most certainly am. Again, thankful for my desk job.
Hugs!
We had great news all over the Francis/Bosch house in the last 2 days. Rader, the youngest stepson, is now a certified lifeguard! He will be overseeing my friends and our kids and all our activities. Hmmm...maybe this was not the best choice on my part....just kidding. I am excited for him to start. We also found out that Ellie made the Horace Mann cheer leading squad!!! She did not make it last year and has worked really hard over the last year to improve her tumbling and it paid off. Now I am an official cheer mom...Lord help us all! Ellie was also invited to join the Beta Club for next year. Smart and beautiful...she has it all. I am so blessed that I have great students. Everyone is pretty much an A student and only need a little bit of pushing in the academic part of their lives. No matter how smart your kids are, you still need to be involved and make sure they are making right choices. Sometimes they can forget to prioritize and become overwhelmed so make sure you are checking in with them on a regular basis so they do not get behind. Most kids do not like to ask for help until they are way behind and then it is a struggle to get them back on track. We are always parents. Just because they become more independent does not need we need to forget about them. Keep attending their games, their ceremonies, and talk to them about homework, grades, colleges, etc. They still need us despite what they tell us.
Tip of the day: get a massage. Hubby gave me the absolute best massage last night on my feet and legs trying to work out the soreness. It felt amazing! I am still sore, but I feel my flexibility coming back. Now, you may not have someone who has talented and strong hands like my husband does, so treat yourself. I always get hubby a massage for Valentine's Day because I am not strong enough to get into the deep muscle tissue on his legs. He has massive calf muscles from all the years playing soccer...mmmm. Anyway, it feels good and is not that pricey. I have a great friend, sister really, who is a massage therapist and if you need her info let me know!
Have a fabulous Tuesday and get some rest if you need it. I most certainly am. Again, thankful for my desk job.
Hugs!
Monday, May 5, 2014
The race that almost did me in
Happy, ouch, Monday, ouch. Why the ouches? I completed my first 1/2 marathon on Sunday at the Diva Dash in Branson. Woot! Woot! It was one of the toughest things I have ever done. I did not train for it and was sick the day before and that morning, but I completed it! Now, don't get me wrong, I do exercise. I walk on a semi regular basis, but nothing like 13.1 miles in a row. I am usually a 2-4 miler. And I walk, and run a little. Well, let me tell you...13.1 miles is tough! I was doing fabulous up until about mile 7 1/2. I stopped sweating at mile 8 (was dehydrated) and had to sit down and rest. I replenished with gatorade and poured a cup of water down my back and kept going. At mile 9, I got my stride back and felt better until about mile 10. My friend Patty, who is my hero, came back on a golf cart to finish with me. It was our first 1/2 marathon together and she is in much better shape than I am, but we just wanted to finish and were not concerned about our time. She concurred that I was dehydrated so she poured countless glasses of water down my back, heavenly, and sat with me for a bit while it soaked in. I then drank 2 more glasses of gatorade and we continued on. The last mile was horrible. The course was 70% hills and it was 92 degrees. To finish, you had one last hill to climb, and then it was all down hill or flat. We rested for a bit at the bottom and then made our way up. My friends sent encouraging messages and as extra motivation told us that half dressed firemen were awarding our medals, so that definitely helped! When I saw that finish line, I was so happy. We actually danced our last bit into the Marathon to "Happy" which was very appropriate. I managed to finish in 3:46. I wanted 3:30, but at that point I was just glad I finished. I am so very thankful to my awesome friends for helping me scratch this off my bucket list and also to my darling husband who took care of all the kids this weekend and sent me beautiful text messages throughout the race to keep me going. I am so very blessed with the people I have in my life. My friend Jeanne, who is a real runner, came in first in her age group and was awarded a medal by Barry Williams(Greg Brady for those who remember the Brady Bunch). She said it was the toughest course she had ever ran, so I feel really accomplished that I managed to finish. I did manage to lose 2 1/2 pounds, but burning 1500 calories will do that for you. So, tip of the day: make sure you train before taking on a half marathon! Will I do one again? I doubt it. I am happy to stick to 5 and 10 K's and be the cheerleader to all my wonderful running friends. I am motivated to work on my time for a 5K which may turn into something else, but who knows. The rest of the weekend was awesome! I love my friends. We always have such fun together. We stayed in a beautiful condo with a gorgeous view of Table Rock Lake, so we had dinner on our screened in patio and just enjoyed the view and the company. It was so relaxing. And of course, on Saturday when we got there we had to hit the Outlet Mall. I restrained myself in the Coach store(first for me), but managed to find a super cute top for only $7! Love a good bargain. One of my friends bought Mark and I matching Tervis Tumblers. His says "Mr. Right" and mine says "Mrs. Always Right". They are awesome!
Hope you had a fabulous weekend. The weather was amazing. Jake had a soccer game which they won and therefore had an undefeated season! Rader was busy with homework and a life guarding course. He will be working at our Village Pool this summer so I am excited for him. Ellie had cheer tryouts and played 3 soccer games in a tournament on Saturday. Her team won, tied and lost. She crashed out at about 9:00 pm and pretty much rested on Sunday. My parents had a safe trip back home and managed to come out to a soccer game and eat with the rest of the family. I have not seen them yet, but hopefully soon. I missed them.
Now, time to take some ibuprofen and be thankful I have a sit down job.
Hugs!!!
Hope you had a fabulous weekend. The weather was amazing. Jake had a soccer game which they won and therefore had an undefeated season! Rader was busy with homework and a life guarding course. He will be working at our Village Pool this summer so I am excited for him. Ellie had cheer tryouts and played 3 soccer games in a tournament on Saturday. Her team won, tied and lost. She crashed out at about 9:00 pm and pretty much rested on Sunday. My parents had a safe trip back home and managed to come out to a soccer game and eat with the rest of the family. I have not seen them yet, but hopefully soon. I missed them.
Now, time to take some ibuprofen and be thankful I have a sit down job.
Hugs!!!
Friday, May 2, 2014
It's Friday, I'm in love
Hello!!! It is Friday afternoon and I can see the weekend! We have been firming up plans for our girls weekend and I can hardly wait. There is nothing like a girls trip. Make sure you take the time to enjoy one every once in a while. We are headed to Branson and the weather is supposed to be wonderful. Let's hope so as we will be hitting the outlet mall and doing other outdoor activities as well. We are staying in a friend's condo, for free, love free, so that leaves more money for shopping, right???? That is usually how it works in my world anyway.
Tonight I am going to an Art Exhibit at M2 Gallery in Pleasant Ridge. A friend's friend, Milan is displaying his work at the Gallery and I am looking forward to seeing it. I have seen photographs of his work, but there is nothing like seeing it in person. If you have a free moment tonight come out. It is from 5-8 and you will not be disappointed.
Does anyone want to come over and garden with me? I love working in the garden, but I cannot find the time to do it! I have flowers to buy and plant and some weeds that are taking over my backyard. I try and work on it a little at a time, but I really need a whole day. I so wish Spring would make up her mind and stay warm so I can actually work outside when I have the time. It seems whenever I have a free night it is raining or freezing. This is May, right????
Tip of the day: go for a walk/run. 30-40 minutes a day of exercise is recommended and the majority of us do not get that in. I love going for a walk. You miss so much of the world when you spend all your time in a car. I love all the flowers and checking out every one's landscaping. I have gotten some great ideas from my neighborhood-thanks guys! Keep it up. Walking one of our nature trails or bridges will give you some breathtaking views as well, so as they say, take some time and smell the roses. You will feel better and more relaxed, I promise.
Have a fabulous weekend and be safe out there!
Hugs
Tonight I am going to an Art Exhibit at M2 Gallery in Pleasant Ridge. A friend's friend, Milan is displaying his work at the Gallery and I am looking forward to seeing it. I have seen photographs of his work, but there is nothing like seeing it in person. If you have a free moment tonight come out. It is from 5-8 and you will not be disappointed.
Does anyone want to come over and garden with me? I love working in the garden, but I cannot find the time to do it! I have flowers to buy and plant and some weeds that are taking over my backyard. I try and work on it a little at a time, but I really need a whole day. I so wish Spring would make up her mind and stay warm so I can actually work outside when I have the time. It seems whenever I have a free night it is raining or freezing. This is May, right????
Tip of the day: go for a walk/run. 30-40 minutes a day of exercise is recommended and the majority of us do not get that in. I love going for a walk. You miss so much of the world when you spend all your time in a car. I love all the flowers and checking out every one's landscaping. I have gotten some great ideas from my neighborhood-thanks guys! Keep it up. Walking one of our nature trails or bridges will give you some breathtaking views as well, so as they say, take some time and smell the roses. You will feel better and more relaxed, I promise.
Have a fabulous weekend and be safe out there!
Hugs
Thursday, May 1, 2014
Doctors and an embarrassing story
It's Thursday!!!! One more day closer to the weekend and I do love my weekends. So yesterday Fred was successfully removed. Yippee. Thank you for all the kind words of encouragement. It is a bit swollen and sore today, but no bruising so far, so hopefully I missed that part. The doctor was awesome who removed it and everything else checked out as well. My sister was diagnosed with Melanoma(skin cancer for you lay people) last year so I had a full body check as well. I was a bit nervous about the check, but so thankful everything went well. The doctor said I looked really good and my husband said "yes, she does". I should think that is embarrassing, but I don't. I love it. Now today's doctor's appointment? That was embarrassing. I went with hubby to the doctor to have his shoulder checked out. He has been having some pain and we wanted to have it looked at. While we were in the waiting room, he was sitting on the examination table and I was standing in front of him. I gave him what was meant to be a little peck on the lips, but it ended up being way more than that. Remember yesterday when I told you he was a great kisser? This is what happens. Anyway, while we were in the middle of this make out session, the doctor knocks quickly and walks right in. He said, "Ummm, Mr. Francis, do I need to come back?" I jumped back and turned bright red. Yikes!!! Luckily the doctor was someone hubby graduated high school with, but still. Hubby said, "No, it is all good, come on in. Sigh....I guess there are worse things to get caught doing, but wow.
Hubby and I took the boys to see a sneak preview of Neighbors last night starring Zac, oh em gee, Efron and Seth Rogan. It was belly holding laugh out loud funny, but sooooo inappropriate! The boys absolutely loved it, but some scenes I wanted to melt in the chair. I still cannot wrap my head around the fact that we have boys that are old enough to see rated R movies, let alone understand what is going on in them. I still see my little boy, who is over 6 feet, as wearing footie pajamas helping me make cookies. And when I met Rader, he was younger than Ellie is now, so I am in denial about how old they are both getting. Anyway, go see this movie. It really is funny and has a great message at the end.
Tip of the day: Do not over do it. Food, exercise, work, play, etc. Moderation is the key. If you over eat, you will gain weight. If you over exercise, you will hurt yourself. And, yes, you can over exercise. Your body needs to rest. We are only designed to take so much at one time. If you are on a high intensity work out program, take advantage of your rest days and do some stretching. Yoga is a wonderful thing as is stretching at home. Your body will thank you for it and be ready for the next workout.
Hope you are having a great Thursday. I most certainly am, but then I think most days are pretty great. It's what happens when you live in a world of rainbow and butterflies.
Hugs!!!
Hubby and I took the boys to see a sneak preview of Neighbors last night starring Zac, oh em gee, Efron and Seth Rogan. It was belly holding laugh out loud funny, but sooooo inappropriate! The boys absolutely loved it, but some scenes I wanted to melt in the chair. I still cannot wrap my head around the fact that we have boys that are old enough to see rated R movies, let alone understand what is going on in them. I still see my little boy, who is over 6 feet, as wearing footie pajamas helping me make cookies. And when I met Rader, he was younger than Ellie is now, so I am in denial about how old they are both getting. Anyway, go see this movie. It really is funny and has a great message at the end.
Tip of the day: Do not over do it. Food, exercise, work, play, etc. Moderation is the key. If you over eat, you will gain weight. If you over exercise, you will hurt yourself. And, yes, you can over exercise. Your body needs to rest. We are only designed to take so much at one time. If you are on a high intensity work out program, take advantage of your rest days and do some stretching. Yoga is a wonderful thing as is stretching at home. Your body will thank you for it and be ready for the next workout.
Hope you are having a great Thursday. I most certainly am, but then I think most days are pretty great. It's what happens when you live in a world of rainbow and butterflies.
Hugs!!!
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