Self doubt. Where does it come from? Why is one person so confident and another person so full of shame? Is it the words we hear? Did something happen to us in our younger years to make us doubt ourselves? Me, I am a pretty confident person. I have always believed in the concept that "God did not make junk". We are all here for a reason. We were planned. We are created in His image. Even if you are not a believer, the fact that the sperm that was the one who made it, that helped create you should be enough. Words most assuredly hurt, but why even listen to them. Now, I am not saying that the hurtful words do not bother me from time to time. I have been told, or rather written about in the past, that I am a "fat shamer"(this one boggles my mind, I would not shame anyone), a husband stealer(this one cracks me up, because seriously, how do you steal someone, and I would not do that anyway), a skinny bitch(sure, I am skinny, but a bitch? hmmmmm, maybe on occasion, but hey, we all have a little bitch in us), a virtual stalker(really? how do you virtually stalk someone?), and one of my favorites, a hypocrite. Sigh. At the end of the day, that is really just that person's perspective of me and what can I do about it. Not everyone is going to love you. And I do not think it is a jealousy thing, I just think that person really does not like you. There are a handful of people that I just really do not care for. And you know what, that is okay. Really. It is. Stop taking to heart what others say about you. And on the flip side, be careful with your words. Even if you delete a mean post or comment, you still put it out there. Stop. Please.
You are important. Please remember that. Love yourself. You have one life to live, live it out loud and happy!
Hugs!!!
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